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Open Minded

Female (54) looking for Male Ocoee, Florida, United States

"If anything can go well, it will": My Optimist's Creed isn't just a statement, it's my way of life. Whether I am spending time in nature, engaged in a new project or enjoying the company I keep, there's always some fun to be had.

I am a professional who understands that a balanced life also includes the opportunity to have fun with others. I am fascinated by people in general, but especially men. No, really! For any problem you being a refreshing perspective that is almost always on point. Whether you were the sweetheart who opened my door, or the person who sold me my groceries, you never fail to bring a little light to my day. I never regret seeking your advice. Can't wait to see what experience we can share. What do you have to teach me today?

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My Cat(s)

Does your cat live indoors or outdoors?Indoors
What is your cat's name?Sabrina, Ellie and Kelly
Do you have other pets beside cat?Yes
If yes, which ones?I have a 3 year old husky
Do you have more than one cat?Yes
What breed is your cat(s)?Ellie is an American Shorthair with a classic "bulls eye" swirl of color on her sides. Sabrina and Kelly are calicoes. Kelly is very shy, so much so I'm not sure she is a cat at all. I frequently refer to her instead as a chicken in s cat-suit.
What gender is your cat?Female
Do you take your cat with you when you go on vacation?No
Your cat's favorite toyWhat ever is off limits seems to be their favorite
Is it necessary that your partner also have a cat?No
Where did you get your cat from?Animal Shelter

My Dog(s)

What is your dog's name?Iro. He is my "Zen Puppy". He was named for the wise but powerful warrior "General Iroe" in the Nickelodeon series "Avatar the Last Airbender"
What breed is your dog?Iro is a Siberian Husky
How old is your dog?3
What gender is your dog?Male
Does your dog live indoors or outdoors?Indoors
Do you have more than one dog?No
Do you take your dog with you when you go on vacation?No
Your dog's favorite toyLoves stuffed animals that squeak. Unfortunately this also includes my cats. They exist in a fairly peaceful truce : "You no come into my space, I no scratch your face".
Does your dog wear a muzzle?No
Is it necessary that your partner also have a dog?No
Where did you get your dog from?Breeder


EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height5' 3" (160 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureSmile
Body ArtBelly button ring, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessVery attractive


Have PetsCat, Dog

Education & Employment

SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Job TitleTherapist

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDramas, Movies
Favorite TV showsNCIS/Law and Order, Supernatural
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Drama
Favorite moviesFate of the Furious, Hidden Figures, X-Men: Days of Fututre Past
Music typesJazz, Ambient
Reading selectionAncient, Fantasy, Science fiction
Idea of funSpontaneous trip to someplace I've never been before.
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Reading, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Travel, Cooking


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asSomeone they want to be
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing dress-up, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trySkiing: not much snow where I grew up


Goal in lifeTo leave the world a better place than I found it, by helping to heal one soul (or many) at a time. Nothing particularly religious here; my job involves reminding people that they are not broken and to do so often requires believing that we are more than we appear to be. I am living this goal; just want to see it on a broader scale. This will likely involve traveling and lecturing.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI enjoy kindness and beauty as much as anyone, but there is something so breathtaking about a man who can be Present. This is a person who is confident, attentive and demonstrative. He isn't embarrassed by my likely public displays of affection and rhinks that our flirting at any stage of our relationship is downright fun. He knows that the activities we do and friends we have separately are just as important as anything we share. This is someone who could honor my beliefs even if he did not share them.
On the first dateDefinitley into engaging multiple senses. We have 5 of them for a reason; why not enjoy them? Dinner in a scenic location is a good start but I also like movement so a late evening stroll would be just the thing. It's possible we may be listening to ocean waves, smelling the salty air and digging our toes into the sand to catch the fading warmth of the setting sun.

Exercising Preferences

ExcercisesAerobics, Jogging, Weightlifting